How did I find his lj? Well, messing around I decided to add "anonymous sex" to my lj interests. I guess I should have known, but I was surprised to find that others, of course, had already put this in their interest list. He was one of the random users I clicked on.
Wonders of the internet, eh. I remember when one once well known computer pundit (Jerry Pournelle, who is also a sf writer) mused how the internet and online search tools would be detrimental to serendipity. You know, like just walking down an aisle at a library or book store and happening to see something interesting. Boy was he ever wrong about that, eh. I bet there is a clickers anonymous for those that just can't stop browsing.
ok, now you know.